When Things Don’t Make Sense, Breathe: Finding the Gift in Not Knowing

Dave
4 min readMay 23, 2024
www.smallpausecoach.com

In the complex fabric of human life, we frequently struggle to comprehend the mysteries of existence. It’s natural for us to seek meaning in the events around us. Let’s face it: not everything in life is clear, and unraveling every mystery or event that doesn’t make sense can become overwhelming and distract us from the present moment.

Have you ever lost someone in an untimely manner? Have you been let go from a job unexpectedly? Or did a relationship dissolve right before your very eyes?

During times like these, we can be obsessed with finding the ‘reason’ behind everything. We may cast blame or take on all the blame for the circumstances, but we can all agree that neither is productive and can prevent us from opening up to the possibilities that exist at that moment.

The Quest for Answers is Innately Human

From the most minor everyday problems to the grand questions of purpose and existence, humans have an insatiable thirst for answers. We crave clarity, logic, and rationality in a world that often operates in mysterious ways. This quest for understanding is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, driving us to explore, learn, and grow.

--

--

Dave

Dave is a coach, father, entrepreneur and leader. He lives in Steveston, B.C., Canada and is the founder of the Small Pause. See more at www.smallpausecoach.com